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How can I help you or your organization?

Hi! I'm Nyx, and I'm available and excited to help kinky individuals and organizers create safer, and more inclusive experiences together. My focus is on fostering a culture of consent and agency, particularly within alternative lifestyle and LGBTQIA+ communities. Below is a list of the services I offer to support these goals:

- Seeking a Shame-Free Exploration of Kink? Nyxie offers personalized coaching and support to help individuals and couples explore kink in a safe, responsible, and shame-free environment.

- Passionate About Consent and Agency? If you're looking to foster a culture of consent and agency within alternative lifestyle or LGBTQIA+ communities, Nyxie provides in-depth education and community support.

- Looking for a Presenter, Educator, or Speaker for your Kink or Sex Positive Event? - Nyxie has multiple offerings and can work with your organization to find the best content to offer your community, whether via podcast, webinar, or in-person classes and workshops

Looking for Practical, Hands-On Learning? From teaching classes to leading demonstrations, Nyxie offers engaging and tailored education on consent, safer practices, and responsible kink, look in the slides below for currently offered classes and demonstrations.

 

What I'm up to...

Events, Classes, Appearances

SINagogueBDSM Podcast Appearance!

A hilarious dive into sadistic tickling with The Rabbi and Lil Bit

Dominance Dialogues

Check out my episode on Dominance Dialogues where I chat with Rope Aficionado about Sadistic tickle torture

We had a great chat and you can listen here!

Reign Of Pain

Reign Of Pain Sadistickle 102

I return to the Reign Of Pain Online Conference for Edgeplayers this Feb 2026 with my 102 level Tickling Class, A Recipe For Trouble!

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Thrive 2026

Join Me at the Thrive 2026 Conference

Send a quick message if you would like to suggest topics, present, or support in another way. PKinkingEvents@gmail.com

 

Who will be presenting:

Neurodivergence and Power Exchange AMA Panel

Panel Description

 

We bring all of our panelists back for an open "ask me anything" style panel!

Ignite After Dark Jan 30 @Brava Theatre

Ignite After Dark

Join me for a fascinating evening at the Brava Theatre in SF on Jan 30 with myself and several other storytellers for this fast paced and spicy night of information/education/Entertainment

Filthy Mouth

Filthy Mouth, Wicked Words!

Filthy Mouth, Wicked Words is a playful, hands-on class designed to upgrade your erotic verbal game. As a former phone sex operator with thousands of hours behind the mic, I’ve spent years refining the art of turning breath, tone, and language into pure electricity. In this workshop, I’ll show you how to move past the awkwardness that keeps so many people quiet, freeze-y, or unsure of what to say.

 

 

Insidious Ignominy

Insidious Ignominy

“Insidious Ignominy” is a 200-level class designed for those with prior experience in kink, who are ready to explore the darker, more nuanced aspects of humiliation and degradation.

This class delves into the complex allure of these power dynamics, focusing on the thrilling possibilities of covert public and semi-public scenes.

 

1stkinkyconvention

Your 1st Kinky Convention

"Ready to dive into your first kink or sex-positive event? Whether it’s a convention, retreat, or expo, Your First Kinky Convention is your ultimate guide to making the most of it! This fun and informative class will help you prepare for the adventure, from packing essentials and planning logistics to navigating the sometimes-overwhelming event atmosphere.

 

 

Viridi Lux Consulting

Nyxie Noc, Presenter, Educator, organizer, consultant and coach

 

Nyxie Noc (Any/All Pronouns)

Nyxie Noc is a seasoned and compassionate Domme with decades of experience as a sex worker, fetish content producer, and educator in kink, consent, and advocacy. It has supported conduct and consent teams for various kink and sex-positive organizations and has provided safer-play orientations to over 850 participants, along with personnel orientations to more than 100 staff members within these communities.

Nyxie’s work is driven by a passion for the freedom of expression found within kink, and it values the transformative power of every scene and interaction. It is dedicated to creating safer, more inclusive play spaces and fostering supportive communities.

Its collaborations include work with organizations such as Sex Geek Summer Camp, Boundless Events, AfterDark Events, and Stopgap Dungeon. Through its insightful workshops, engaging demonstrations, and personalized one-on-one coaching, Nyxie endeavors to shape a future where exploration and expression are not only embraced and celebrated but also safeguarded. Its approach is rooted in the principles of equity, accountability, education, and harm reduction.

Approachable and empathetic, Nyxie Noc is committed to helping others navigate their journeys with confidence and care, ensuring that everyone can experience the profound connections that come from a culture of consent and inclusivity.

 

"I hired Nyxie Noc to be the “Consent Lifeguard” at a summer camp-themed business retreat I run for sex educators called Sex Geek Summer Camp. Nyxie brings fresh, new perspectives to the consent and agency conversations in sex-positive spaces, including her innovative BURGERS for Agency concept, which adds a vital layer to the well-known FRIES for Consent framework. I believe that anyone involved in this work would benefit greatly from incorporating BURGERS for Agency into their communities and practices. I’m genuinely excited to see how Nyxie’s contributions continue to shape and improve the consent culture and support in our spaces, and I look forward to working with her more in the future."— Reid Mihalko, Founder of ReidAboutSex.com and Sex Geek Summer Camp
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Reid Mihalko
Founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp