Viridi Lux Consulting
Nyxie Noc, Presenter, Educator, organizer, consultant and coach
Nyxie Noc is a queer, disabled, genderfluid kink educator, presenter, and community leader with more than 20 years of experience in the kink community. Nyxie uses any/all pronouns and brings a distinctive combination of practical experience, humor, curiosity, and care to their work. Their teaching centers agency, equity, accessibility, and consent, with a particular interest in helping people move beyond the mechanics of consent and toward cultures where people have the tools, confidence, and freedom to make meaningful choices.
As an educator, Nyxie brings together practical skill-building, thoughtful discussion, and a willingness to explore the wonderfully diverse corners of kink. Their classes range from impact, sensory play, tickling, and fetish exploration to power dynamics, authority exchange, accountability, accessibility, and the ethics of demonstration. They are particularly known for their playful but rigorous approach to sadistic tickling and for creating classes that make room for both serious conversations and delightfully unusual questions.
Nyxie has presented at a growing range of kink, leather, and sexuality events, including Kinky College 2026, TESFest 2026, Boundless Retreat 2026, Dark Odyssey Surrender, DomCon LA, NMLL Fiesta, the Service Oriented Conference, and Portland Leather Alliance. At Boundless Retreat, they have served as both keynote and featured presenter. They have also contributed to conversations beyond the classroom, including an Ignite After Dark talk on their Burgers for Agency framework and appearing as a guest on Midori’s Consent Dojo.
At the heart of Nyxie's teaching philosophy is the belief that agency is the foundation of meaningful connection. They approach consent as an ongoing practice rather than a one-time negotiation, exploring how communication, power, accountability, accessibility, and self-awareness shape the experiences we create together. Their goal is not to tell people what their kink should look like, but to give them better tools for understanding what they want and making intentional choices about how they pursue it.
Nyxie has extensive experience working behind the scenes in education and community programming. Their work has included educational coordination, presenter support, community programming, safer-play orientations, conduct and consent initiatives, community skillshares, fundraising events, and event operations. They have helped create educational spaces designed to be welcoming, accessible, and useful to people with a wide range of experience and needs.
Across classrooms, conferences, community spaces, and creative projects, Nyxie brings the same core philosophy to their work: curiosity matters, consent matters, people matter, and learning should be engaging, practical, and transformative.
